Visits to homebound parishioners this time of year are different. It’s especially difficult for those who have had a loved one die recently. There may also be renewed memories of family who passed away many years ago. Grief is not easy. Grief becomes more difficult around the holidays.
In the last few days, I’ve seen some positive among those I visit. It seems happy faces come when I ask a question related to Thanksgiving: “Most of us have the basics for the meal, turkey and stuffing and mashed potatoes and pumpkin or apple pie. But what’s the special dish that your family always has at the big meal?”
While a variety of extras were mentioned, there’s something more important. Smiles and twinkling eyes. Thoughts of time passed, and gatherings to look forward to. It is and will be different with empty places at the table. But…there are opportunities to remember as well as to change or add new traditions.
A positive way to give thanks this year!
Happy Thanksgiving!
“Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.” 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 NRSV-CE
Peace,
Deacon Tom